Is your child’s sulking, whining, hyperactivity, temper tantrums and becoming easily frustrated linked to YOUR technology use?

Is ‘Technoference’ affecting your parenting? Are you always checking your phone? Do you find it hard to turn it off? Do you check your phone at the dinner table or in restaurants? Are you on your phone at the school gates, trains, coffee shops ? So, the BIG QUESTION IS…. Is your child’s sulking, whining, […]
Is Yelling at Your Children Verbal Abuse?

I was asked to contribute to the new Jeremy Vine TV Show on Channel 5 about whether yelling or shouting at children is verbal abuse. We all lose the plot at times & lose our temper & end up shouting at our kids, but what is the difference between the odd shout & consistent verbal […]
Dear Sue. My teenager won’t stay at home. What can I do?

Dear Sue. My teenager won’t stay at home. What can I do? Delroy Reid from Peckham, London This is VERY IMPORTANT so you need to change your attitude, tone of voice and body language This is about ‘Talking & Teaching’ & sitting down & making it feel serious – say ‘I need to speak to […]
As children embrace life outside the classroom – this is an opportunity to nurture their ‘Character’

Where does ‘character’ come from? Is it something we are born with, develop or are taught? Is it fixed and determined at birth or something that can be moulded, encouraged and nurtured? Character is the product of what we teach our kids as parents. It’s linked to our values & beliefs about life and […]
Every time you think of something that you can’t do right now because of lockdown ……

Today make a ….. “We can’t wait to jar.” Every time you think of something that you can’t do right now because of lockdown, write it down on a piece of paper and put it in the jar. Then once this is all over you will have […]
It’s not ALL about Joe Wicks. Preparing Children for the Return To Their New Secondary School During Lock Down is an Opportunity not a Insurmountable Challenge

The world of social media is awash with activities to home school kids from getting them physical with Joe Wicks, to Maths with Carol Vorderman, to Music with Myleen Klass to Science with Maddie Moate. But as we enter a new calmer phase of Lock Down, I think it’s helpful to […]
How to Help Your Autistic Child During the Coronavirus Outbreak.

Krittika joined me on my daily ‘Don’t Stew – Ask Sue’ Instagram Live that I have started doing every day at 10am asking me about tips to help her autistic son cope with all the changes that Coronavirus has brought. Here are some tips to help and I’d love to see you over on […]
Make Mum Feel Marvellous This Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day may be affected more than ever this year due to being careful about getting together with our Mums and family because of the Coronavirus. But jumping on Skype, sending a heartfelt letter or Facetiming is still a way to say ‘I love you’ to your Mum. Here are just some of my ideas […]
Thriving Not Just Surviving The Coronavirus

In these challenging & unprecedented times. Connect with your friends & loved ones, obviously not in your usual ways, but we have the technology to stay in touch. So pick up the phone & chat, Skype or FaceTime to stay connected & caring. Let people know that you are thinking of them. Our greatest […]
How to Talk to Your Kids About the Coronavirus

I was speaking on Channel 5 News about ways of handling the Coronavirus with your children. The crisis of COVID-19 that has engulfed adult lives for the past few weeks has frightened and confused children too. As they hear you and teachers repeatedly stressing the need to maintain personal hygiene and hear or read of […]
Top 20 Working from Home Tips

There are going to be a lot of people newly working from home starting this week, due to the Coronavirus and it will be a difficult transition for some – my husband included! I’ve worked from home for many years so here are my top 20 tips for working effectively & avoiding distractions ? Top […]
Why I DON’T think singing ‘Happy Birthday’ is a good idea for kids protecting themselves from the Coronavirus
? I was thinking that’s it’s not a great idea to link the ‘Happy Birthday Song’ to the Coronavirus ! ? It may become anchored in your child’s mind as a negative, scary time and you don’t want that association unconsciously associated around their birthday ! Also do your kids really want to keep singing ‘God […]
Boys & Toys – Let’s Talk Guns!

Like many parents, you may be torn between allowing your kids to play with the toy guns they’re clearly drawn to, and fearing it’ll turn them into violent psychopaths. Why do kids—and boys, especially—gravitate towards guns? Studies show that boys and girls have different styles of play, especially between the ages of three […]
Kids gain MORE when parents do LESS.

‘Be careful’ ‘Stop running’ ‘Hold on tight’ ‘Play nicely’ Don’t climb too high’ ‘Slow down’ ‘Let me do that …’ Have you found yourself saying these things? All these phrases mean well but they undermine & rob children of the experience of learning for themselves because someone else is in charge. You are the one […]
I watched a Mum praise her son for sneezing the other day ‘You’re so clever’ she said ? Are we in danger of over praising our kids?

Are we in danger of over praising our kids? We all think that self esteem is important as it boosts a child’s resilience. But has the balance swung too far as we praise far too easily & liberally for ‘normal’ things kids do? I watched a Mum praise her son for sneezing the other day […]