Why Is Smacking Wrong?
SMACKING YOUNG CHILDREN HAS LONG-LASTING EFFECTS – STUDY If I had a penny for every time I heard ‘But Sue, I was smacked as a child and it didn’t do me any harm!’ I’d be a rich woman, or at least I’d have a very expensive pair of Jimmy Choo shoes! There is overwhelming evidence that smacking […]
The Sue Atkins Sunday Saying – a cup of positivi-tea

Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children do better, first we have to make them feel worse? Think of the last time you felt humiliated or treated unfairly. Did you feel like cooperating or doing better? – Jane Nelson
How Do I Cope With School Closures and Homeschooling.

As regularly readers know I was a Deputy Head and Class Teacher for 25 years and have brought up 2 kids so I know about the ups and downs of having children. But this is a time of unprecedented challenge and change. Children have been sent home indefinitely from school. The first piece of […]
Why Can’t I Go To School?

A new wave of the virus has thrown families, schools, teachers and parents into chaos as one minute schools are staying open, then London schools are not, then maybe the whole of the UK schools will be closed. Uncertain and chaotic times. Here is some excellent advice from www.mhinnovation.net A global community of mental […]
The Sue Atkins Sunday Saying – a cup of positivi-tea

Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid. – Albert Einstein
Parent Coaching might be for you – or it might be a waste of time and money. Here’s how to decide.

Do you need a little extra help figuring out this parenting business then Parent Coaching just might be for you! Parent Coaching can make life easier, or more stressful. But it’s up to you! Here’s how to decide. So, what exactly IS Parent Coaching? Not many people have actually heard of parent coaching over […]
How Do I Communicate Better With My Kids ?

How Do I Communicate Better With My Kids ? Communication with children is essential to their relationships and to their healthy development. Effective communication is an essential & important life skill in all aspects of our lives, from talking & listening to our partners, clients or work colleagues to communicating with our children. During this past […]
The Sue Atkins Sunday Saying – a cup of positivi-tea

You don’t need to attend every argument you’re invited to. – Unknown
‘Unmoored’ is the best way I can describe it as children feel adrift from their routines, their Granny & grapple with uncertainty
I have been asked to contribute to Education World India about the impact online learning has had on children. Here are my thoughts: With the sudden halt to in-person learning, many students have missed their friends, yearned to be out of the house, developed erratic sleep habits and drove their (often working) parents crazy. On […]
As It All Ends in Tiers: Keep On Adapting & Do What My Dear Old Dad Used to Say…

We’ve all got to think of creative ways to celebrate this Covid Christmas. Before we went into Tier 4 I had a contingency plan that went something like this: We’re going for it. We’re going to sit under the big outside bauble decorated tree all fully lit up since the Summer, fire up the […]
Thrilled to have filmed with Billie Faiers and Greg Shepherd from The Mummy Diaries – my advice about Temper Tantrums

? ? Well the cat can come out of the bag ! ? I’ve been filming ? with Billie Faiers & Greg Shepherd from The Mummy Diaries for Disney Junior UK in a parenting series covering temper tantrums, morning routines, self esteem to bedtime routines all BURSTING with my practical & simple parenting tips. ? Don’t forget to join […]
The Sue Atkins Sunday Saying – a cup of positivi-tea

It’s not our job to toughen our children up to face a cruel and heartless world. It’s our job to raise children who will make the world a little less cruel and heartless. – L.R. Knost
Weird? Embarrassing? Fun? – Family Traditions & Rituals – Why They Matter

Your children might think your family rituals are weird, but rituals are how your family says, ‘This is who we are and what we value’ We always sat down to our Christmas Dinner at 5pm as my Grandad used to visit his family in the morning so always ate later in the day. So, my […]
A More Forgiving Way For Goal Setting In A Pandemic

I usually power up the music, get into a positive state, dig out my Tony Robbins Goal Setting Template & plan my new year. But I don’t this old approach will serve me this year and whilst I don’t think goal -setting is cancelled in 2020— I think it needs to look & feel different. […]
The Sue Atkins Sunday Saying – a cup of positivi-tea

No matter the problem, kindness is always the right response. – L.R. Knost