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In today’s increasingly digital world, our children are exposed to the online jungle where dangers like phishing lurk behind seemingly harmless messages, emails, and pop-ups. Phishing, a common tactic used by cybercriminals to steal personal information, can affect anyone—from curious toddlers clicking on colourful images to tech-savvy teens managing their social media accounts.
As parents, it’s our responsibility to equip our children with the knowledge and tools they need to navigate these digital threats safely. But how do we explain the concept of phishing to a preschooler? Or help a teenager recognise a phishing scam disguised as a legitimate email?
This guide provides age-appropriate scripts designed to help you talk to your children about phishing, whether they’re just beginning to explore the internet or are already navigating the complexities of the online world. By understanding and discussing phishing with your kids, you’re empowering them to make smart decisions and stay safe as they explore the digital jungle. Let’s dive in and learn how to protect our families from these online predators.
Script for Parents of Toddlers and Preschoolers (Ages 2-5)
Introduction: “Hi, sweetheart! You know how sometimes we play on the computer or watch shows on Mummy or Daddy’s phone? Well, I want to tell you a little story about something called ‘tricky messages’ that can sometimes pop up.”
Key Points:
- What is Phishing?
- “Sometimes, tricky messages try to get us to click on them or tell them our secret information. They might look like fun games or silly pictures, but they’re actually trying to trick us!”
- Spotting Tricky Messages:
- “If you ever see something on the screen that you don’t know, like a strange picture or a pop-up, make sure you call Mummy or Daddy right away. We’ll help you figure out if it’s safe or not.”
- Why We Don’t Click:
- “We don’t want to click on tricky messages because they can do bad things, like make the computer sick or take our secret information. That’s why it’s important to ask for help first.”
Conclusion: “Remember, if you see anything that doesn’t look right, just call for help. We’re here to make sure you have fun and stay safe while you play!”
Script for Parents of Primary School Children (Ages 6-10)
Introduction: “Hey, Child’s Name. Now that you’re using the computer and tablet more, there’s something important we need to talk about. It’s called ‘phishing,’ and it’s when people try to trick you online to get your private information.”
Key Points:
- What is Phishing?
- “Phishing is when someone sends you a message that looks like it’s from someone you know or trust, like a game you play or a website you visit. But really, it’s a trick to get things like your passwords or money.”
- How to Recognize Phishing:
- “If you get a message or see something online asking for your personal information, like your name, address, or a password, it’s important to stop and think. Most of the time, real companies or games won’t ask you for this kind of information out of the blue.”
- What to Do if You’re Unsure:
- “If you ever see something online that seems strange or makes you uncomfortable, come get me or another adult you trust. We can look at it together and decide if it’s safe.”
- Why It’s Important:
- “Phishing can lead to bad things, like someone getting into your accounts or even stealing money. That’s why we need to be very careful about what we click on and who we share information with online.”
Conclusion: “Remember, the internet is a fun place to learn and play, but it’s also important to stay safe. If you’re ever unsure about something, I’m here to help. Let’s keep your online adventures safe and fun!”
Script for Parents of Tweens (Ages 11-13)
Introduction: “Hey! Now that you’re spending more time online, chatting with friends, and exploring new websites, there’s something important we need to talk about: phishing. It’s a sneaky way that people try to trick you into giving away your personal information.”
Key Points:
- Understanding Phishing:
- “Phishing is when someone pretends to be a person or company you trust, like a game site or even a friend, and they try to get you to share private information like your passwords or credit card numbers.”
- How to Recognize Phishing Attempts:
- “Phishing messages often look very real—they might say there’s an emergency, like your account will be deleted if you don’t click a link. They might ask you to enter your login details, but it’s a trick to steal your info.”
- Be Skeptical and Verify:
- “If you get a message or email that seems off, don’t respond right away. Check the email address, look for spelling mistakes, and if it’s asking for personal information, it’s probably a scam. Always double-check with me or another adult before clicking on links or giving out any information.”
- What to Do if You Encounter Phishing:
- “If you ever think you’ve received a phishing message, don’t panic. Just don’t click on anything, and let me know so we can report it or delete it safely.”
Conclusion: “Phishing is one of those things that can happen to anyone, but by staying aware and cautious, you can protect yourself. If you ever feel unsure about something online, remember I’m here to help. Let’s keep your digital world safe and secure!”
Script for Parents of Teenagers (Ages 14-18)
Introduction: “Hey, I wanted to talk to you about something that’s important as you’re becoming more independent online: phishing. It’s a major issue that can affect anyone, and it’s important to know how to protect yourself.”
Key Points:
- What is Phishing?
- “Phishing is a type of online scam where someone pretends to be a legitimate person or organisation to trick you into sharing your personal information, like passwords, bank details, or even social security numbers.”
- Recognising Phishing Attempts:
- “Phishing can come in many forms—emails, texts, or even messages on social media. They often look like they’re from companies you trust, like your bank, favourite apps, or even someone you know. They might say there’s a problem with your account or offer something that’s too good to be true.”
- How to Protect Yourself:
- “Always be skeptical of unexpected messages that ask for personal information or pressure you to act quickly. Check the sender’s email address, and don’t click on links or download attachments unless you’re sure they’re legitimate. If in doubt, go directly to the website in question by typing the address yourself instead of clicking a link.”
- What to Do if You Suspect Phishing:
- “If you think you’ve encountered a phishing attempt, don’t engage with it. Report it if possible, and delete the message. If you’ve accidentally shared any information, let me know right away so we can take steps to protect your accounts.”
Conclusion:
“Phishing is one of the most common online threats, but with the right precautions, you can avoid becoming a victim. Always trust your instincts—if something feels off, it probably is. I’m always here if you need help or have questions about anything suspicious you encounter online.”