The Sue Atkins Wednesday Story To Ponder
Posted by: Sue Atkins
Here is today’s story from my never ending notebook and everlasting coloured pencil
“An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer contractor of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family. He would miss the pay cheque at the end of each month, but he needed to retire. They could get by.
The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favour. The carpenter said “yes”, but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work.
He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was a really unfortunate way to end his career.
When the carpenter finished his work and the builder came to inspect the house, the contractor handed the front door key to the carpenter. “This is your house,” he said, “my gift to you.”
What a shock! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. Now he had to live in the home he had built none too well.
So it is with us. We build our lives in a distracted way, reacting rather than acting or being proactive, willing to put up less than the best. At important points we don’t give the job our best effort. Then with a shock we look at the situation we have created and find that we are now living in the house we have built.
If we had realized that we would have done it differently.
Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think about your house. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Build wisely. It is the only life you will ever build.
Even if you live it for only one day more, that day deserves to be lived graciously and with dignity. The plaque on the wall says, “Life is a do-it-yourself project.”
Who could say it more clearly?
Your life today is the result of your attitudes and choices in the past. Your life tomorrow will be the result of your attitudes and the choices you make today.”
So what has this story got you pondering about?
What has this story got to teach you about your parenting?
What sort of house and home are you building?
What could you do differently from today that would change that, improve it or fine tune it?
What messages do you take from the story that could pass on to your children?
What would that teach them?