The Magic of Teaching Your Kids About CHOICES.

I’ve been working with a young woman recently who acts like a victim. She blames her boyfriend for getting her pregnant & treating her badly, she blames her teachers for kicking her out of school as she relentlessly defied the rules and she blames her last employer who sacked her because she became belligerent, argumentative […]

My Tug of War Technique

  I’ve been recently working with a group of parents going through the turbulent times of a divorce and I asked them to remember participating in or watching a tug-of-war competition. You like me can probably remember both sides sweating, tugging, pulling, wrestling and expending huge amounts of energy but not really getting very far […]