Are You Prepared For The Divorce Process?
Posted by: Sue Atkins
Screaming ‘I want a divorce’ is only the first part of a very LONG journey.
Getting divorced uproots everything you’ve held dear.
Getting divorced challenges your perception of who you really are.
Getting divorced can transfix you with fear.
Getting divorced unsettles your children, and overwhelms you with guilt.
Getting the house and the lawn mower is only the tip of the iceberg.
In most cases a person is so emotionally worn down by the time they decide to divorce they’ve not had the wherewithal to consider what the financial and legal process of divorce actually entails.
Welcome to the wonderful world of divorce and its cast of supporting characters…lawyers, judges, mediators, financial advisors, custody disputes and learning to manage your expectations, as well as your FEAR.
Most parties who decide to divorce have never been involved in legal litigation, used a solicitor or even been inside a courtroom. For them divorce is their first sobering involvement with the world of legal litigation.
But it doesn’t have to feel like this overwhelming, frightening and terrifying.
I have recorded a series of Divorce – Step by Step Videos to help you navigate through the process with more confidence and clarity.
Divorce is both an end to marriage and the beginning of a new, different experience.
Take your time.
Discover who you are – don’t rush into the arms of another person too soon as you’ll repeat the patterns of the past.
If you’d like to work with me over a 6 week, hour long phone or Skype call drop me a line at Sue@TheSueAtkins.com or call me on 01883 818329 I’m here to support, champion and cheer you on while you go through the transition of family change.